It’s hard to summarise my time in South Africa in just a short article. Exchange has been more than an adventurous and eye-opening experience… it’s been a complete refresh, I’ve returned with a newfound mindset, stronger values, and a deeper understanding of the world and the society that shapes it.

When I first signed up for exchange, I wasn’t sure what to expect, but I was open to anything. What I experienced went far beyond my imagination. From my beautiful and welcoming host family, who feel like lifelong friends, to the vibrant, close-knit community at St Cyprian’s School. I’ve been given the trip of a lifetime and not for a second have I regretted coming.

School life at St Cyprian’s, compared to Scotch Oakburn, has its similarities and differences. Being an all-girls school, the communication between students and staff has a different tone, one shaped by a strong sense of sisterhood. At first, I was a bit unsure about attending a same-gender school, having come from a co-ed background, but I’ve found that it creates an incredibly supportive environment. There’s a strong bond across the grade, and a powerful ‘St Cyprian’s spirit’ that flows through everything. It’s something I want to bring back to my relationships at home — kindness, support, and inclusivity.

One thing I really admired was the student voice system, where each grade has a representative to share concerns or celebrations directly with staff. It creates a sense of empowerment and open dialogue — a concept I’d love to see introduced at Scotch Oakburn. I also enjoyed the interhouse competitions, especially dance and drama, where anyone can participate to earn house points — it brought energy, creativity, and fun to the school community.

Academically, there were some big differences. At St Cyprian’s, students study maths, English, a language (Afrikaans or Xhosa), and then choose three subjects from options like food studies, art, biology, accounting, business, and drama. That makes a total of six subjects. In contrast, at Scotch Oakburn, I take six electives in addition to core subjects like maths, English, HPE, humanities, and a general science curriculum that includes biology, chemistry, and physics. It has made me appreciate the many options we have at Scotch Oakburn which allow students to foster all interests.

A defining part of my experience has been witnessing the contrast in living conditions. Around 20% of Cape Town’s population (about 572,000 people, the size of Tasmania) live in informal housing structures known as “shacks.” Seeing this firsthand made me deeply grateful for the security and comfort of home. It also made me more aware of the need to conserve resources like water and electricity. While Cape Town faces challenges like overpopulation and crime, the large population creates a vibrant, energetic city full of colour, culture, and opportunity. I’ve loved the fast pace, the buzzing streets, the diversity of food, and the endless list of things to do — things that a small town like Launceston simply can’t provide. Still, I’ve come to appreciate the peace and simplicity of our home more but wish we could balance the opportunities a bigger city brings.

Cape Town’s natural beauty absolutely blew me away. Table Mountain is breathtaking and can be seen from almost anywhere in the city. Even after three months, I never got tired of the view. The beaches are some of the most stunning I’ve ever seen, and the streets are full of life with running groups, markets, and incredible restaurants. I didn’t expect to be so mesmerised by the scenery. There’s greenery everywhere and driving around feels like you’re in a beach movie. One downside, however, is the lack of safety in some areas. I have missed being able to walk around! I wish we could combine the freedom we have in Australia with the beauty of Cape Town.

I’ve been incredibly lucky to experience so much — from going to a Springbok rugby match, to shark cage diving, three safaris, bungee jumping, surfing, and lots of hiking. But above all, it’s the genuine friendships and unforgettable memories that I will cherish most. I found my people and got blessed with an exchange family I get along perfectly with. These bonds I know will last a lifetime and I am certain I will be back.

This experience has taught me independence, patience, the value of communication, and a deep appreciation for the privileges I often take for granted at home. Leaving won’t be easy, but I’m so thankful to have had an experience that makes saying goodbye so hard. I look forward to returning to Scotch Oakburn with a renewed spirit, inspiration, and energy — and a part of Cape Town I will carry with me always.

Lila Sims
Year 10